With some exceptions, throughout human history, women have always been perceived as someone who has to submit to men. It’s always the woman who has to listen, obey, and follow. Quite understandable! it was nothing but a lack of knowledge – the knowledge about women’s psychology.
It is true that nature has crafted women’s minds with dominant feminine energy, which means most women are driven by feelings and emotions, making them agreeable, but not all of them. In some women, masculine energy is dominant, which means that naturally, they don’t feel comfortable submitting—not just to their partner but to anyone.
And therefore, this kind of woman might face problems in relationships not only with a partner but at every level.
Before we dive deep into this topic, let’s have a glance at some of the most common attitudes of such women. Let’s see how they naturally think and would like to operate in life.
Leadership Orientation:
Women with dominant masculine energy naturally take charge, often stepping up to lead in a group setting, whether at work, in friendship, or even in family.
Mentor:
Such women tend to feel a strong desire to advise or mentor others. They often take on a “big sister” or “mentor” role in friendships or relationships.
Independence And Self-Sufficiency:
These women usually prefer to handle situations on their own and may find it challenging to rely on others, which naturally makes them powerful and resilient.
Goal-Oriented:
They focus on achieving goals, often prioritizing work, personal ambitions, or self-improvement over social obligations.
Protective:
They can also be protective of those close to them, exhibiting loyalty and a desire to ensure others’ safety and well-being.
Confidence And Boundaries:
They have a strong sense of self and set clear boundaries, which can sometimes come across as intimidating or unapproachable to others.
Masculine Women In The Modern World
Now, for centuries, women were perceived as the opposite of what we just discussed. Today, in the 21st century, when the world has finally decided to see men and women equally, the problem is still unresolved on cultural and social levels. Many countries, especially in the West, are trying to accommodate these women, but the public mentality still struggles to understand and accept this nature in women.
It is a very interesting discussion, and the mind is surely tempted to see its different perspectives on the levels of the state, society, and cultural background. However, from a Solid Clarity point of view, we will focus only on personal and relationship point of view.
And so, here is the question: What is the best possible match for a masculine woman?
It’s a tough question, and nobody has a universal answer to it. To keep it simple and easy, let’s try to find their best match in the following five categories.
1. Family-Oriented Men
This particular option has a lot of situational factors involved. For example, women who are financially dependent or seeking stability might look for a partner who is financially stable. In this case, the focus of the women would be on building a family and supporting their husbands, which is a more traditional role and might seem to go against the nature of a masculine woman.
However, financial security provides a foundation for safety and security, which are the most important and fundamental factors for any human being.
So, this is a wise choice for many women. In fact, this desire for stability is nearly universal, as financial security is essential for a comfortable family life.
2. Feminine Men
If a masculine woman is financially independent and not primarily seeking financial stability, a partner with dominant feminine energy could be ideal. After all, such a man would more likely be agreeable which provides a supportive and peaceful relationship dynamic. And that is the recipe for a comfortable and happy life.
Also, if you think about it, or if you observe it around you, you will realize that in most relationships, one partner naturally leads while the other follows. This doesn’t mean that one is the master of another. It simply means that one of them takes the leadership role for the healthy functioning of the family.
After all, the main goal is harmony, not dominance. So, a man with an agreeable nature is probably a sensible choice, as it allows you to express your natural attitude without any resistance.
3. Masculine Men
For some masculine women, feminine men may not be attractive due to a lack of challenge. They find excitement in relationships where there is a balance of resistance and cooperation. For such women, masculine men, seem to be a preferred choice.
However, this type of relationship can be challenging, as both partners may desire to lead. And if there are differences in opinion, there might be clashes and arguments.
However, it’s seen that, most of the time, women tend to dominate in this kind of relationship. A man who rules everywhere else might be ruled by his woman at home. For a masculine woman, this looks like an ideal relationship—someone so special, attractive, and deeply masculine, submitting to her.
And perhaps a man who lets his partner lead in the relationship is a wise and mature choice; he might want to relax at home after leading others all day. A masculine man might consider himself lucky to have a strong woman who can take charge when he wants to rest. And therefore, for both, this partnership feels like a win-win.
4. Solution Oriented Men
There are a few rare masculine women who actually look for a partner they can submit to. This might seem like they are going against their very nature, but that’s not the case.
In fact, there are certain masculine men, who exercise their masculinity in a very unique and powerful way.
From a psychological standpoint, masculine individuals, both men and women, are natural problem-solvers; they often focus on problems, which can sometimes lead to a cycle of worry or over-analysis.
However, certain masculine men are solution-oriented; they have the ability to look at life from a big-picture perspective. In chaotic situations, they remain calm and confident because for them the solutions to problems are so obvious. This kind of man is unshakable; If you bring him a storm of emotions, his powerful silence might absorb all of it.
And so, even if you are masculine, you may find yourself willing to submit to this man. Even though you love to lead, you’ve found a better leader, the one who makes you feel safe and secure.
5. The Soul Mate
There are different aspects of the masculine attitude; one of them is knowledge and growth. Some masculine men and women are meant to grow. They are open to change, they learn and keep growing. Women with this mentality crave knowledge and growth. And therefore, they feel attracted to those men with whom they can connect intellectually.
For these women, attraction lies in the mind they often seek partners who can intellectually challenge and connect with them on a profound level. They crave a partner who can stimulate them mentally, engaging in deep conversations and mutual learning. In relationships at this level, both partners are solution-oriented, prioritizing understanding over winning arguments.
Probably masculine attitude is a defensive mechanism, you are forced to lead because you can’t find the one who makes you feel safe. When you finally find someone who not only listens, understands, cares, and respects your opinion but also admires whatever you say and think, perhaps this is the man who deserves to witness your feminine energy. Finally you can be weak, shaky, and vulnerable. You can relax and stop acting strong. You might finally be ready to let him conquer the fortress of masculinity and experience the ocean of your femininity.
There is nothing more beautiful for a masculine person than to openly experience their weakness without worries of judgment. You can experience all your emotions and be sure that it will not cost you your dignity. You can be yourself completely because you are safe.
But remember, the submission at this level of relationship is mutual. You were supported and guarded in your vulnerability, and a time will come when you will need to play this role. And you must follow the same unspoken rules. You must handle him and the situation with dignity.
It’s up to you if you want to witness the other side of this strong masculine man. If you want to experience the highest possible intimacy in your relationship, you will have to make sure that he trusts you.
For masculine men and women, their weakness is the most private aspect of themselves.
A man with such a mentality will only drop the curtain of his masculinity when he is sure about your elegance. And you don’t have to speak about it – he knows you, he can see through you, and he will notice it when you mean it.
When masculine partners openly exercise their weakness, this is probably the peak performance of their trust. Perhaps this is what every partner seeks in a relationship.
Now, a question that might knock at your mind: Don’t you think the attraction between this couple was masculinity? How can one masculine person still feel attracted to another masculine person after they have witnessed each other’s weaknesses?
Well, the subject of attraction is indeed another person, but it is your mind that experiences the feeling of attraction. The standard of attraction is rooted in your own mind, and here, that standard is elegance. Only an elegant mind will continue witnessing the charisma in their partner.
Isn’t it beautiful? The most precious, sensitive, and private treasure of a masculine individual is the courage to “reveal their vulnerability,” and the only true safeguard of that treasure is the “elegance” that lies in another’s mind.
The definition of a soul mate is different from person to person, depending on their nature. But if we consider the phenomenon of a soul mate as a stage in a relationship, then perhaps you have just witnessed that stage. For such partners, this level of relationship gives a soul mate vibes.
Partners at this level enjoy expressing their weaknesses, witnessing the weaknesses of their partner, being a leader, and also following. You feel heard and understood with value and respect, and you allow your partner to experience the same.
At a certain stage, you might feel like your wish is his wish, and his desires are your desires. What you want is exactly what he wants and vice versa.
Perhaps as a masculine woman, this is what you might crave in a relationship – the ultimate harmony, deep connection, love, peace, and intimacy with a fragrance of elegance on top.
