We humans are different from one another in some way or the other. But some people are much more different than others. These are the people who are often considered unusual, unique or rare. Due to their unique way of looking at life and the world around them, they seemingly have unusual likes and dislikes, attitudes, views, preferences, beliefs, and values.
Also, as is natural, such rare people are not attracted to everybody. However, if they are attracted to you, it might be because of the following unique reasons.
You Might Make Them Feel Safe
One of the biggest attractions you might possess is that you might just understand people the way they are. Humans have this inherent need for someone who understands them in the right way.
So, if you possess this ability, you are already a safe place for such rare people. After all, they mostly come across people who probably tell them that they are wrong. So, they strive all their life for a person who can tell them that they are not wrong, but just a little different.
When such unique people find you, they might feel peace right away in your presence. You probably act like a mirror for them; they perhaps see themselves through you without any judgment. They also probably enjoy your company because you can justify every single unique mindset they possess. Their different perspectives or attitudes in every single matter of life are finally not a flaw anymore but actually uniqueness.
You Might Prove Them Right
Most people are mentally wired to understand the society the way it is. Their minds are not in a state of conflict with their surroundings. And therefore, they easily adopt the culture without any arguments. But certain people think differently. Their minds are steeped in curiosity. They question their surroundings and everything that’s happening around them. They just can’t take things the way they are; they have to raise questions all the time.
They also probably mostly live in the world of imagination, and sometimes, their observations and analyses prove things wrong. It’s like they have their own theories regarding different things but they have to keep it in their minds because people won’t understand. When they meet you, it’s like they finally meet someone who also think the same way. You might somehow prove all their observations to be correct.
You Probably Value What They Value
Some rare people might value their thoughts more than the material things because their minds love creating ideas. For them, their ideas are their creations. They live with their creative minds more than the people around them.
However, people in general do not like idealism. Therefore, their ideas are mostly declined, resisted or opposed. And that’s why you might be attractive to them because you value what they value, you value their creativity, you value the creation of their minds.
What can be more attractive for a person when they find someone who actually admires what they have been thinking the whole life!
You Are Perhaps The Source of Their Connectivity
Two strangers might enjoy each other’s company just because they are both new in a country. They have similar things to talk about because they might experience similar eases or difficulties in that new country. As such, their similar situations help them connect with each another.
Quite similarly, some rare people carry a huge amount of knowledge in their mind. Their life experiences, their everyday observations and brain storming on different life matters almost make them a living book, if not a library.
However, all their knowledge seems to be premature, unattested or lets say unreal. They might somehow feel like it’s not true.
When they meet someone with a similar mindset, it might be one of the most beautiful experiences ever in their lives.
When two such people meet, it’s only obvious that they will just keep talking with each other. If they are walking they might just keep walking, if they are sitting they might just keep sitting in the same place for hours, if it’s night time, they might talk till morning without even realizing it!
Their deep conversation will take them out of time and space. It’s like they finally found someone who can help them connect all the dots; like they found the missing part of the puzzle.
One of the most famous philosophers, Rumi, got his way to his knowledge by meeting with Shams. It is believed that they were together for 3 days and nights when they met for the first time!
There are many different interesting reasons to connect with one another but for certain unique people, the most fascinating reason could be the level of conversation; something which might take them deep in their mind or something which might help them exercise their intellectual intelligence.
And so, you might possess a great attraction for these kinds of people who have a great understanding of many different aspects of life. They might love and enjoy your company because you might help them to understand things on a much deeper level or a bit more clarity.
However, there is one funny fact about all such unique people and that is that they are extremely introverted. They mostly stay in their own choice of social circle. They are hardly seen in public and therefore, quite hard to find and connect with. It’s a funny truth, isn’t it?
If you can relate to such unique natured people, you probably need to know that just like you, there are many interesting people out there. And they can only be found when you challenge your social attitudes. Try to explore, look for meet-up groups on the internet or travel around. You never know… you might just meet someone who is your type and you might be his/her type!
